The 10:07 to Florence does not care that your metro was held at a red signal, that the platform changed twice, or that you stopped for one more coffee. It leaves at 10:07. Most missed connections in Europe aren't bad luck. They're the predictable result of an itinerary that assumed everything would run perfectly. Plan for the version of the trip where one thing goes slightly wrong, and you'll usually end up with the version where nothing does.
Before you open a single timetable, write down the things that cannot move: the flight home, the wedding in Seville, the hotel you've already paid for, the friend you're meeting on a specific evening. Those are your anchors. Everything between them is negotiable, and treating it that way is what keeps a route realistic.
A comfortable pace for most travellers is two cities in a week, or three if the hops are short. Four cities in seven days is possible, but you'll spend much of it watching the countryside and hauling a suitcase through stations. If a city is getting a half-day, ask honestly whether it's worth the transfer at all.
Not all train tickets behave the same way, and the differences show up precisely when something goes wrong.
If you buy a single ticket covering the whole journey and a delay makes you miss the connection, the operator is generally responsible for getting you to your destination, usually on the next available train. If you bought two separate tickets to save money, that second ticket is simply gone, and you're buying a new one at walk-up price. That difference can easily outweigh the savings. Terms vary by operator and country, so read the conditions on your own booking before you decide.
A buffer isn't padding. It's the thing that turns a stressful sprint into a coffee. How much you need depends entirely on what the connection actually involves.
Cities with several stations trip up more travellers than anything else. Paris has six main terminals, each serving different regions. Rome has Termini and Tiburtina. Milan has Centrale and Porta Garibaldi. Vienna has Hauptbahnhof and Meidling. Always confirm which station your train uses, and book accommodation near that one, not near "the centre" in general.
Watch for stations that sit well outside the city they're named after. Several high-speed stations in France and Spain are a shuttle bus or a taxi ride from the town itself, which adds twenty to forty minutes you haven't budgeted for. The same goes for airport stations: "Frankfurt Airport" and "Frankfurt Hbf" are not the same place.
Arrive earlier than feels necessary for international services; passport and security checks add time you can't see from the timetable. Watch the departure boards rather than trusting the platform on your ticket, since it can change late. If your transfer is tight, sit near the front of the train and near the doors. Walk your route once if you have time to spare, so you're not reading signs while pulling a bag.
And always know your plan B: the next train two hours later, or the bus that covers the same stretch. Knowing it exists is often enough to stop a delay ruining the day.
Run through the itinerary once more and ask three questions. Is every connection either generously buffered or covered by a single through ticket? Do I know exactly which station I arrive at and which one I leave from? And is there a realistic alternative if one train fails me? If the answer to all three is yes, book it, then stop worrying. The trip is supposed to be the good part — the planning exists so the trains stay boring.
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